I was not upset he was masturbating, but that the photos were of girls that looked very young, say between 15 and 20 years of age. I then discovered he had been looking at photos of naked women and masturbating quite frequently. I was happy to go along and it’s been a nice perk in our lives. Last March, my husband became a bit more amorous, and our sex increased, which I attributed to the pandemic. My husband and I are in our mid-50s and have a pretty good sex life and communicate well, or at least I thought so.
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